Anxious Lovers vs. Avoidant Partners: How Your Attachment Style Shapes Intimate Relationships 1. What do you do when your partner doesnβt reply to your message promptly? Rationally assume theyβre busy and continue with your own tasks Anxiously wonder and repeatedly ask, βWhat are you doing?β Purposely act distant and wait for them to reach out first Directly express dissatisfaction and demand an explanation
